tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1804448950520786538.post6506817267874180065..comments2023-09-13T08:17:26.609-04:00Comments on lovin' every minute of it.: Mommy VentingShea Poseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09741290901993623602noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1804448950520786538.post-19070131574535306552009-02-14T09:28:00.000-05:002009-02-14T09:28:00.000-05:00Shea, I teach a class at the Y four nights a week ...Shea, I teach a class at the Y four nights a week for one hour each. I get a nice break but not too long of one either. I miss the kids when I'm gone but it's awesome to know that Daniel is home with them when I am. <BR/>I understand how you feel although I see that you're a great mom and so it's all normal. It's awesome that you have nursed her this long! It's such a big commitment and she is so blessed that you have stuck it out for her! Thinking of you...rameelinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06330538611955363497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1804448950520786538.post-37023649538510061182009-02-12T19:33:00.000-05:002009-02-12T19:33:00.000-05:00Shea, I feel your pain. I have always worked and m...Shea, I feel your pain. <BR/>I have always worked and made my own money until I got pregnant with Noah.<BR/>As much as I LOVE bing home with my kids, I need "me" time as well (like Ashley said)<BR/>My boys are terrible about being left with other people. Even little 9 month old Benjamin knows when his Mommy leaves and cries forever until I get back. <BR/>It's frustrating. It's hard. It's overwhelming. And I'd love to say that it gets easier. <BR/><BR/>But being so far from home with no help, no one you know, it's just tough. <BR/><BR/>I think that once you get her on formula, you should try bringing her to a sitter. Maybe you have a neighbor that you trust or something. Just try it out and see how it goes. Maybe once she gets used to it, start looking for a job.. it'll give you "you" time and will probably releave alot of stress. <BR/><BR/>Here I am giving you the same advice that I need, too! I actually told Aaron tonight that Im going to start applying for a job. He can watch the boys from 5pm til whenever and I'll have some sanity! <BR/><BR/>Good luck girl! And by no means are you a bad mommy. I think everyone just needs a little break once in a while.Jackelynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02608491199932376963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1804448950520786538.post-89584978007093356152009-02-12T18:08:00.000-05:002009-02-12T18:08:00.000-05:00Thanks!! I have your cell phone number I believe. ...Thanks!! I have your cell phone number I believe. The one I have is a 910 number unless you changed it. And some of the girls from the board are wanting to get together for lunch next week if you're interested.Shea Poseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09741290901993623602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1804448950520786538.post-19279790978196582582009-02-12T16:53:00.000-05:002009-02-12T16:53:00.000-05:00Awww I can understand what you are trying to say. ...Awww I can understand what you are trying to say. It's hard being a mommy all the time. Obviously it's something you are all the time, but it's good to have me time. First start off simple. Ask/ or tell Jordan that you would like to work. Start off maybe just Friday nights or Sat/Sun. That way you know she is safe and sound. It's his responsibility as her father to help you and her. It's not good to stay coped up in your house all the time being mom/wife/maid..etc. She is always welcome here, you could come hang out and see how she likes us :) Hang in there though. Every couple needs a date night too. Keep the marriage fun and alive!!! After 5yrs my husband and I would need still need that if he was here. If you need anything let me know, I am here!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com